Mind Splurge Episode 4: Facebook fucked your life huh?

I gotta say something because this has been bothering me for a while.
A lot of men and women make the common mistake of expressing their true feelings on facebook. Those feelings being about a personal situation involving other people, who probably have access to the statuses that you made about them/ the situation. This leaves you at a disadvantage in many different ways. 1, Since they now know how you really feel, you cant later act like you dont care and gain advantage of the situation. 2. You let them know that they have the ability to affect your emotions negatively, giving them the mental advantage due to your, now emotional, rather than logical decision making in the situation. And 3. You take away their need to call and ask how you feel because you already vividly expressed how you felt in your status. So now you're going to get angry later from them not calling you, which is going to lead to the problem of you feeling like they don't care. But think about it, if you KNOW someone is mad at you wouldn't you want to wait until they calm down to call?

The way to remedy this situation is to NEVER EVER EVER EVER put your personal business/feelings on facebook. PERIOD! There is nothing good that will come out of it. If you need to talk to someone about it, either call the person you're mad at, or call someone that knows the both of you but WON'T go back and tell the person what you said. Or you can just write about the shit thats bothering you. Not on Facebook or Twitter though. Never let the person know that you are mad until all your thoughts are ready to come out calmly. Once they know you are mad, they gain the advantage. If you never want them to know, then just dont say shit, act like it didnt bother you at all. But why would you put your shit out on facebook in the first place?? If you have the time to write long ass depressing statuses and blow up my news feed with your pussy ass problems then you have time to think of a solution. Stop being a pusscake and just run up in their house! Problem solved.
-Amative